Dudes, each and everyone of us sucks at this. We compare ourselves to others, to ourselves, to our younger selves, to a fantasy self, to fantasy others... to fictional characters... This causes a continuous state of discontent. Or at least a continuous sporadic state of discontent. lol. You know what I mean. I don't have that car. I don't have that …
Read more“When someone is seeking," said Siddhartha, "it happens quite easily that he only sees the thing that he is seeking; that he is unable to find anything, unable to absorb anything, because he is only thinking of the thing he is seeking, because he has a goal, because he is obsessed with his goal. Seeking means: to have a goal; but finding means: to be free…
Read moreI had a lengthy discussion yesterday with one of my daughters. She is currently struggling. She is frequently struggling. She sort of sobs and says, "last year you told me that I am not content." We went on to discuss why. I believe Rachel Hollis says something like, I can find immense gratitude for where I am at while also working towards the next thing…
Read moreGather ye rose-buds while ye may, Old Time is still a-flying; And this same flower that smiles today Tomorrow will be dying. BY ROBERT HERRICK Reduce distractions : you cannot stop and gather the rosebuds with your nose stuck in your phone. Duh. We get tired of hearing it. We get tired of telling ourselves this. But then we get the itch and the twitch and we for…
Read more"thoughts are just water drops" by brenkee is licensed under CC0 1.0 "When I don't know who I am, I serve you. When I know who I am, I am you." -Ram Das
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