"Late one night St. Francis Borgia arrived unexpectedly at a Jesuit house, in a snowstorm. He knocked and knocked on the door, but all to no purpose because the community being asleep, no one heard him. When morning came all were embarrassed for the discomfort he had experienced by having had to spend the night in the open. The saint, however, said he had enjoye…
Read moreWhat is your ugly story? Oh, I know you have one. We all have at least one. For some of us we collect ugly stories. My ugly story tells a moment in my life when I was lost and hurting and I did something that I feel deep guilt over. I have more than one, but that is the basic outline of EVERY singly one. What is the outline to your ugly story? We carry t…
Read moreGather ye rose-buds while ye may, Old Time is still a-flying; And this same flower that smiles today Tomorrow will be dying. BY ROBERT HERRICK Reduce distractions : you cannot stop and gather the rosebuds with your nose stuck in your phone. Duh. We get tired of hearing it. We get tired of telling ourselves this. But then we get the itch and the twitch and we for…
Read more"Under the Christmas tree." by Bernard Spragg is licensed under CC0 1.0 Is it just me or does it seem that way more than the usual amount of people are decorating early for Christmas this year? In years' past I might let a couple decorations sneak in a bit early, but the Christmas decorations don't get unpacked until after Thanksgiving. Except…
Read moreThere are subtle ways in which we manipulate our environment to support our intentions. You might use a fragrance to bring energy. You might where a power color like the classic red tie or blazer. You might listen to music that pumps you up. If we can create an environment that supports our best selves, we should strive towards achieving that. If, and only if…
Read moreThis isn't profound and may be something you've already considered, but maybe it's time to reconsider it or take it to a new level. Here goes: When you were a child, when you were feeling especially loved, there was most likely cake involved and your favorite food. When you are feeling unloved today, in order to boost your feelings of love, or to…
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